Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Learn to let go!!!!
It's hard to forgive and forget. We are always taught to forgive, but it is not as easy as it sounds. If we keep everything in, all our feelings bottled up, we end up hurting ourselves. I order to be at peace with ourselves we need to focus on what is truly important. There are certain events and situations in life that seem to follow us around. It is like our shadow we don't notice it at all times but it's there. We need to learn from our experiences and not take the negative feelings with us to present or future relationships. in order to become better people we need to be at peace with ourselves and let go of the unnecessary.
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I totally hear you...I find myself holding onto year-old things! I don't know why and sometimes I wish I didn't. I'll check in here to find ways to be positive. Bye for now.
ReplyDeleteI picked your blog to comment on because it's not about celebrities or sports. Thanks for taking the time to focus on a topic that requires some deep thought. I respect the principals of Zen and the desire to achieve self realization and peace...
ReplyDeleteHave you seen the Wiki article? Lots of good information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen
Too true! This is something I deal with constantly and I know it is better to let go but sometimes you just can't help it damnit! I believe you have to be OK by yourself and in your own skin before you share it with someone else.
ReplyDeleteIts hard let go... but I agree in order to move on and be at peace... We have let go of the past...
ReplyDeleteCould you please let me know HOW to do this? I try and try to let go of experiences and choices that were not great choices and for about 5 minutes I'm like YEAH, I'm over it but then my hearts just hurts again. It's so much easier said than done:(
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